Who created sin?

Do you believe god is all like "serve me or I'm gong to execute you" or even "torture you in hell?"
WHAT IS SIN?
Who is in control? Who created sin? What defines sin? Is it pain? Did god create pain or merely warn us of it's existence?
Why does evil exist? Why does sin exist? If you were on your own, with no one else in the universe. How could you sin? You can't!! Sin is only created when more than one life is around, where two life's need love to keep them united. Where love is needed and love can fail, there sin can grow. Like a seed, in a cold dark damp patch of earth down under the ground, it waits to come to life. Sin grows out of darkness where the light of love can not reach.
But if the will of one can be different from the will of another, the first one can then force the other to experience a reality that this one doesn't want to have. So then sin can exist.
The possibility of pain may have always existed. (Rather than believe someone actually thought it would be a good idea to add that experience to life) But is it a sin to stick your own hand into a fire? No, because it is your will that will pull away and stop the pain. Someone else may force that pain upon you, by holding your hand there. But you, by your self, have the power to chose, to, or not to keep your hand there.
God on his own is capable of happiness, akin to love, he loves life itself, but the love of someone can only exist after god creates someone to be loved. But then the possibility of sin also begins to exist. If that new being is forced to experience events he does not wish for. That's sin.
A Matrix virtual reality, could allow everyone to experience their own reality as they choose it. (The basic technology for this possibility already exists, dreams!) Only together as a group do we need rules of conduct telling us how to treat each other, and how not too. In other words, to be with real people, we need control to prevent sin. Control is considered the enemy in the film "the Matrix" but is it not in fact our protector? If we could create a lucid dream a virtual world or computer generated dream reality. We become gods. Choosing for ourselves what is good and what is bad. Creating our own universe. Our own rules. If one day you have that power, will you remember the power that caused your birth? That gave you your life! The power of LOVE. The power that brought two cells together, rather than leave 1 lonely and on its own! Love brings us out of our dream worlds, where we are all powerful yet alone, and love causes us to give away our power to our friends.
When we all live together as One we live in peace and in harmony with love. WHY? Because who wants to spend eternity alone?